so i occasionally chat with an old friend from high school on facebook. he is old now, just like me. attended culinary school and has lived an exciting life as a chef and manager of many five star restaurants in new york and new orleans. now he lives in napa and seems to only cook gorgeous food and live quietly with his girlfriend on their little "farm". he even has chickens. i talk to him once in awhile, we reminisce about old times and he also makes nice comments about my kids photos. he says aenon looks just like me in high school...says that almost every time we chat. says she has a "spark" about her. funny how he can see that through the internet and through a still photo. very interesting indeed, because it is completely accurate.